对面球员

前两战连战连捷，但对对面的球员总是有些口水。

奇才的八村塁，三场下来16.5分7.5板，前途光明。今年的仅仅9号秀啊。但凡我们能保住今年的8号签，选个这多好。

鹈鹕的湖人三少真是好，今天又集体爆发。尤其是英格拉姆，投得进，防得住，这要是来了独行侠顶上三号位，那真是画美不看啊。

其实我满不理解孤注一掷换巨星的这种交易，三少加三个选秀权换来浓眉。一个人再强能顶得上三个人的贡献吗，何况还有年龄和薪资的优势，就算要赢在当下，扔选秀权就完了，三少这种已经基本打出来的好用球员也交易了，长远来看真是划不来。

更何况，湖人现在的情况，也不是差一个浓眉就能进总决的水平啊。

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补评于10.31:

上场比赛，浓眉3节拿下40分20板……好吧，一人拿下三少的数据，让人只有跪下唱征服的份。果然巨星就是巨星啊，如果湖人能全员整齐以不错的顺位的杀入季后赛，今年的机会还是满大的。

mavs再下一城

鹈鹕真强，潜力状元，一帮在走向成熟的年轻人，又有霍勒迪等当打全明星辅佐，今年会是独行侠争季后赛的名额争夺者之一。

波神在攻防两端都展现了能力，24分5封盖，但关键时刻还是有点不稳，慢慢调整吧。

东契奇打得不算好，但关键时刻真是靠得住，最后决胜时刻的大心脏三分以及几次精妙传球奠定了胜局，顺便不声不响的拿下三双。

莱特和布伦森都很棒，进攻坚决，越来越打开了。

库里的投篮依然如热刀切黄油般丝滑。

好久没看nba比赛了，慢慢来，跟着独行侠重新认识联盟的29只球队。

看剧

近年来看的剧好像比电影都多。韩剧九回时间旅行，仁显皇后的男人，信号。美剧浩瀚无垠一二三，西部世界一二，权游八。日剧delete、不能变成野兽的我们。以及港剧金宵大厦。

韩剧真是出乎意料的好看，尤其是九回，我看过的最好的时间旅行类影视作品了，完全不会侮辱到观众的智商，让人感叹就是我自己来也未必会做的更好。

浩瀚无垠也很棒，同样是我看过最好的space opera题材。细节很到位，没什么令人出戏的破绽。举个例子，之前看星际之门，看到他们穿越到若干光年外的星系还能跟地球实时通信，立刻就索然无味了。而浩瀚无垠里，大家基本都是用视频邮件方式通讯，因为地、月、火星、小行星带都有若干光秒的距离，实时通讯是不可能的。做科幻，至少要不能有那么明显的硬伤吧。

金宵大厦

上周连续每天刷4集，刷完了金宵大厦。

不错的港剧，有认真的编故事和表演，也是我喜欢的题材。

两集一个单元，一共20集10个单元。其中前半part比较好，娃，婴及广受赞誉的鸦乌。后半part有点奇幻色彩不足，眼，金丁，美魔女完全不惊悚的，只有simone还有点意思。

发现香港不知名的演员里还是有些很努力的人。除了两位首次担纲的主演，娃，婴，鸦乌，金丁，Simone的演员也都很亮眼。一些故事单元的台词也写的认真不敷衍，尤其第一单元主线和鸦乌。所以整体还不错。

Go Mavs!

东契奇威武！把一场普通常规赛打成了进球集锦啊！这赛季小牛的球也太好看了吧！

除了怎么吹也不嫌多的东契奇。波神还在慢慢复苏，看着很不稳但也23分。克莱伯的防守真是惊艳，防出对方很多进攻犯规且贡献3个大帽，杰克逊和小库里进攻高效。

新赛季终于开始了！

新赛季开始！

真是期待啊！上次这么期待看常规赛是是什么时候了？久远的没印象了，大概还是蒙塔埃利斯时期吧。

Xbox one

最近娃很迷naruto，想给她买个ultimate ninja storm 4，搜了下发现Xbox one版本的好便宜啊，进而看Xbox one主机也好便宜啊。

于是就入了一台，初代机型，带的游戏不错，red dead redemption 2, rise of tomb raider, witcher 3, call of duty. 再买个全新s版手柄，全下来180，真是便宜到发止啊。

果然是玩游戏的时间久了就会集齐全平台。那话怎么说来着，小孩子才做选择题，作为成年人…

super cub

Honda的摩托车真是让人看到眼里就拔不出来。

面世至今累计销售一亿辆。

几乎开不坏的四冲程发动机。

2升油能开180km。

为了这么漂亮的车，也得去考个摩托车驾照啊。

文化冲击4

The third is focus on shortage.

If I can say I learned sth. from my oversea life and it is changed me so much, then that is it. Our Chinese people was educated in that environment that we should focus on our shortage and overcome it. Then we can get improvement. If we focus on our forte we will be pompous and stop improving.

Before I went overseas I already knew that in western country they rather praise than demeaning. But I don’t think it deeply. I think that is two different way to success. One example is I became a decent man as well. But now I understand that there is a self-fulfilling prophecy. And one can not help to focus on the shortage is a tunnel vision. We can even say that t’s a kind of mental disorder. I’d agree that focus on the shortage maybe is a efficient way when we use it in work. But when we use it in our family and judge people like that, it is totally wrong.

Now I pay a lot effort to change that. It is not easy because we used to it for many years. But after I understand it I know I have to change the way I treat my family. My daughter is shy and unconfident. The only way to improve it is to praise when I saw her every little forte.

文化冲击3

Second thing is control.

Chinese parents role rather like a god to their child but friend. I hate it at the beginning so I never do that to my child. But it is quite common in Chinese traditional culture that children should unconditionally obey their parents order. That is the spirit of “孝顺”.

Now I know “孝顺” is a bullshit. It bend the relationship between child and parent and hurt them both. This kind of symbiosis is insane. But I believe most Chinese still think it is a good thing nowadays. Parent may think they control their children for children’s benefit. It is correct if he is under 3 years old. But most parent may used to the same way they control their kid even if the kid has already grow up. For me, I saw my parents in law always suggest my wife she should wear more or less, she should carry an umbrella, she should eat one more bowl of rice. And what make me can not understand is she never fight back and sometimes she seems appreciate it!

Yes, that is quite common in China. Parents control their adult children. That’s why we have so many conflicting between the generations. I saw seldom parents can control themselves not to cross the boundary. But I think my parents did pretty good. That why I am quit clear where the boundary is and can not stand anyone break into my territory.